University Guys Workshop September 2026 — Marriage and Dating: Understanding and navigating the dating culture in the world today
From September 18–20, university students from all across the lower mainland gathered at Copper Ridge to explore, discuss, and listen to talks centered around dating and relationships. There were many discussions and topics, including what to look for in a partner, how we ought to go about being a good spouse, how to break off a relationship, and much more.
The weekend kicked off on Friday evening, with just enough time for the guys to say hi to everyone, catch up, and get comfortable in their respective rooms. After that there was an orientation giving an introduction to newcomers and a reminder of some housekeeping rules for all. We finished the night with an examination of conscience, and enough snacks to feed a small army.
Saturday we were right into the thick of it with Confessions, which were available every day of the workshop, followed by a meditation, Mass, and a lovely breakfast courtesy of the administration staff — paired with the breathtaking view of the water and the mountains.
One of the unique things about the retreat was that the first activity we had was a panel of speakers, including two couples, with the husbands coming in to answer any questions we had about marriage, dating, and relationships, followed by their wives for a very balanced set of perspectives and insights. The discussions that followed included the speakers highlighting the important parts of their dating life, the pitfalls they had along the way, and various other tips and tricks to use throughout our dating journey. It was particularly interesting to hear about the ladies’ perspective on dating, their take on it, what their journey was, and what they look for in a guy. This was a great foundation which set the tone for the rest of the workshop, and really got the gears turning for all of us.
Our next speaker centered around Christian dating and marriage, outlining some of the misconceptions of how we ought to date and go about courtship in an authentic way as Christian men. This was definitely one of the great highlights of the workshop, as it gave some practical tips for us all (amid some good laughs) to conceptualize and date in a Christian way. This speaker’s talk was centered around the idea of the kind of man that Christ was for his Church: a man who was willing to lay down his life for his friends. This was the core of his message, and it deeply resonated with all of us, as there were many good follow-up conversations that were had as a result throughout the rest of the workshop. The last talk of the workshop was given by a professor on Zoom contrasting the parallels between beer and theological truths, and how the former helps the latter come out in a healthy and natural way among friends. This was a really great contrast during the workshop because it also gave some insight into how to deepen your relationships outside of your dating life, which as we learned is also a skill to work on alongside dating properly.
After a great lunch, we volunteered by doing some landscaping on the property of Copper Ridge. This was hard work, but we had fantastic weather, good tunes, and a lot of hands. Next we got out of our well-muddied shoes and clothes, and got tidied up for a Benediction, meditation, and after our last guest speaker, we had another excellent meal for dinner. We all congregated back into the chapel for a Benediction, followed by a get-together. This was a really fun time — we had a blast cracking jokes, but also discussing the highlights of the workshop, and some ways that we as guys could practically put out options for us to meet new people, both guys and girls.
Many of the guys played Texas Hold’em or other card games with the free time that night, which was a lot of fun, with low stakes to keep it friendly, and also to be gentle on the wallet for everyone. Sunday some of the guys took off early, but those that remained went to the lake and enjoyed a nice relaxing morning there, although no one swam because it was just too cold for that! All in all, this was a really great time to dive into and learn dating and relationships, the necessary principles of dating, and the role that we as men play in that journey that God calls us on. This workshop was a time where we could explore and pray about our call to marriage, and navigate the world of dating in a truly Christian way, with a community and brotherhood of like-minded individuals who strive to take their vocations seriously.










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